Does God Really Love Me?

When faced with a hopeless situation, a common reaction is to feel that God is out to get us, or at the very least has abandoned us. It's one thing to sit in Sunday school as a child and belt out "Jesus Loves Me" with heartfelt enthusiasm. It's another thing altogether to face a job loss, a ruined relationship, or a cancer diagnosis as an adult and say with conviction, "Yes, Jesus loves me."

If we believe that God truly is good, then the next step is to understand that He really does love us...not just mankind as a whole, but you, individually. Me, individually. Your mom, your sister, your neighbor, individually.

But how can we know for sure?


Let's look at how God describes His relationship with us:

Creator: "Then God said, 'Let us make man in our image, after our likeness.'" (Genesis 1:26).
We were God's idea, and we are His creation. His relationship with us didn't end once He breathed life into Adam. When Adam blew it in the garden, God pursued him (Genesis 3:8, 9). When Israel turned on God again...and again...and again, God pursued them (Isaiah 44:21, 22). And when we fail God...again...and again...and again, He doesn't give up on us. We were created for have a relationship with Him.

Father: "Those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God." (Romans 8:14).
Now that I'm a parent, I understand more clearly parental love. Just this morning one of my children claimed they felt "no one loved them." Not because they were abused and mistreated. Simply because I was hurrying them along at a pace they did not want to go. Did my love for them change in that moment? No. They felt unloved because of an emotional response to their circumstances. But my love remained unwavering.

Just as we cannot base our belief of God's goodness on our present situation, we cannot base our belief of God's love for us on our present emotions. Our circumstances may change. Our emotions will change. But God's love for us will never change.

I realize not everyone has (or had) a good relationship with their earthly father. If that is the case for you, I am truly sorry. But let me just say, God is not like your earthly father. He is not waiting for you to fail. He is not mad at you. He is not disappointed in you. He loves you and He wants to show you just how great His love is.

Shepherd. “I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep." (John 10:11) We don't understand much about shepherding in our modern, Western culture, but it's a concept that would have been familiar to the people in both Old and New Testaments. They would have understood the heart of the shepherd toward his sheep. They would have known that a shepherd would go to great lengths to provide for and protect his sheep, even sacrificing his own life to ensure their protection. By referring to himself as the good shepherd, Christ was saying that He will go to great lengths to provide for and protect His sheep (i.e., you and me!) And that's exactly what He did...

Savior: "But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us" (Romans 8:5). Perhaps the most compelling argument for God's love for us is the fact that when we had nothing to offer Him...when all of our best intentions and greatest accomplishments only add up to rubbish (Isaiah 64:6), God still loved us. He showed that love for us by sending His Son to die in our place (the penalty of sin), so that He could have a relationship with us...which was His original plan all along.

If you feel unloved by the Father today, I pray He will wrap His great, big, Daddy arms around you today and show you His love!

See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! (John 3:1)



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5 thoughts on “Does God Really Love Me?

  1. Hi Nancy! Just found your wonderful blog (now following) and I wanted to let you know how much I appreciate your words on grace and the assurance of God's love for us. Thank you for sharing hope in this place, something we all need. Blessings!

    1. Post author

      Angel, I'm so glad to hear you are encouraged by my words. Thank you for following. I pray God will continue to speak to you through these words. ~Blessings, Nancy


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